Jilling Off. On the telephone with my boyfriend in the middle of the night, underneath a steaming hot, green comforter was when I discovered masturbation. This is a week-long crusade where women from all over the world will share their stories, queries, & fascinations with masturbation & pornography, which is still a deliciously dirty “So mine is, when I was about 11 (female) or so, I was playing with the thought of masturbation and decided to take a go at it. I had previously bought some erotic fiction book (The blonde geisha by Jina Baccar if anyone was interested.